There is a need to hide from the next thing we should be doing .
Because the next step is unique to us this means it does not fit into any mould, it cannot please anyone else but ourselves.
So it is by definition selfish.
Society will by design do what I can to cover, distract and reason as to why this next step should not be taken.
Your next step is not societies next step, so there will always be confliction there.
Society is based on the known, true living is in the unknown and your true next step will always be the unknown.
If you allow your next step to be covered.
If you distract yourself with something else.
That urge of the next step will never go away.
It will never go away, ever.
Until you accept what your next step is.
You will never live an authentic life.
Never, ever.