Where there is psychological dependency fear begins.
When you are tied to something there is corruption
Where there is psychological dependancy fear beings, once you are dependant on something you cling to it, you hold on to it, you grab it tight.
Which means you are holding on to the past, which does not exist and is created by thought.
There is great difference between physiological, cerebral dependency and physical dependency.
We can never be physically independent, there is nothing in the room that you were in that was made by one person, nothing not a thing.
You can beat you chest, stand up tall and say how empowered and independent you are, until your toilet breaks, the water rising slowly upwards, now you invoke society, invoke the label, and there is physical dependency for the need for a plumber.
Do you have any idea how heavy water is? how much water you drink and use to clean in day? We are dependent on that infstrcuture and all the wonderful comforts its has given us.
It has allowed us to spend less time feeding our bellies so we can spend more time feeding our souls.
When we are no longer spending all our energy to survive we can do something else with the life force we have left, the available energy not needed for survival.
So we are physically dependent, if you hurt your knee you may need physical support and leverage to do certain things.
We are physically dependant.
Though in order to live a normal life, honest and free of corruption, then we must be psychologically independent, we must not lean on to anyone, not look to anyone else to save us, teach us or understand what we are going through. As this is not possible, and makes every interaction with that person transactional, you are only interacting with them because they can save you, or are a strong scaffold for you to lean on.
If you psychologically depend on another all you are doing is following and then life looses all meaning. You now live in a box, covering up all the beauty of life, and blocking any true action from being taken.
Internally we must be free and not look to anyone, not be dependent on another for anything, to be fee, to be an individual
But externally, physically we must accept we do need others.
Psychologically, independent but physically dependent.
Or to put it another way,
We walk alone, together