Things happen around the thing magnetised by the thing, the spaces in between.
If you do the thing for the reward then you are not really doing it
If you do it to get somewhere then you where never really there
Do the action because the action should be done.
Not for the up and down feeling of being on a roller coaster.
But from a balanced neutral state.
Then you are no longer drowning but sailing on the waters of the experience.
Then you are flowing free and fearless, not because of an image and not because you are trying to be that way
But because you are here and now, breathing in and relaxing.
That allows for space and the world opens up, you can truly see, you can experience others and opportunities.
You magnetise it authentically by doing what you are doing.
You slow down, you move and interact at your natural pace.
Now you can truly interact with others, and tactilely experience the opportunities of this life.
Without agenda, with true action and honesty.
Which is the only authentic way to live and the only way to have authentic experiences.